The first day of school is always so bittersweet. Love being back on a schedule. Miss my boys.
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Willpower...Review by the Doctor
Leading social psychologist and scientist Roy F. Baumeister’s latest research reveals that the average person spends four hours of their day battling temptation. It’s no wonder most of us claim our greatest weakness is lack of willpower. But Baumeister argues this doesn’t have to be the case. In Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength, he collaborates with renowned New York Times science writer John Tierney to revolutionize our understanding of self-control.
Various studies have showed a link between self-control and success across a variety of personal realms. Over years of research, Baumeister found that willpower works like a muscle that can be strengthened with practice, and fatigued with overuse. His lab work also ties willpower to glucose, the basic biological fuel for brain and body, and shows that self-control can be strengthened simply by replenishing the body’s store of fuel. That’s why eating and sleeping — or lack thereof — have such dramatic effects on self-control. It’s also why prison researchers have been able to accurately predict, based solely on how prisoners’ bodies process glucose, which prisoners will commit more violent crimes after their release.
Decision making is similarly reliant on glucose, with choice and will often directly competing for resources. For instance, life-changing decisions can go in different directions depending on whether they’re made before or after lunch. As Baumeister and Tierney show, exhausting and starving your willpower doesn’t just produce one symptom: it intensifies all manner of feelings and impulses. The glucose connection creates a particularly unfortunate Catch-22 for dieters: in order not to eat, a dieter needs willpower; but in order to have willpower, a dieter needs to eat.
The good news is that while self-control is biologically rooted, we have the capacity to manipulate our nature. Willpower features personal stories from entrepreneurs, executives, artists and parents who have managed to do just that. People like David Blaine, Eric Clapton, Mary Karr, and Oprah Winfrey offer life-changing lessons in the exercise of self-control. Their experiences show that we can not only build willpower, but also conserve it for crucial moments by setting the right goals and using the best techniques for monitoring our progress. Once we establish the correct habits, willpower gets easier.
Combining the best of modern social science with practical wisdom, Baumeister and Tierney deliver the definitive compendium of modern lessons in willpower, and explain how however we define happiness—a close-knit family, a satisfying career, financial security—we won’t reach it without mastering self-control
Have you ever wanted more willpower? Have you ever wondered why some days you can drive right past the donut shop without a concern, and some days your car seems to drive itself in there while 49% of your brain is screaming no!!!
Would you like to improve your willpower, or at the very least understand why it fails you sometimes?
While Baumeister & Tierney do not promise to be able to turn you into that stronger person you always wanted to be, this book is full of explanations about why our will fails us, and what we can do to avoid those pitfalls.
Using a nice mix of research, anecdotes and interviews, they have managed to create an engaging and informative read, and give you some laughs along the way.
You will also pick up some useful ideas about how you can improve your own willpower, and how to be better organized.
This is a fun read, and I highly recommend you pick up this book.
Thanks to Trish at TLC Book Tours for the opportunity to review this book. You can see other reviews and tour stops here. You can purchase your own copy here.
Monday, September 5th: Patricia’s Wisdom
Tuesday, September 6th: A Frugal Life
Wednesday, September 7th: Sustainable Life Blog
Thursday, September 8th: Nine More Months
Monday, September 12th: Today’s Path
Tuesday, September 13th: Inventing My Life
Wednesday, September 14th: 2 Kids and Tired Books
Tuesday, September 2oth: Unclutterer
Wednesday, September 21st: Stephany Writes
Thursday, September 22nd: Overstuffed
Tuesday, September 27th: Mind Hacks
Wednesday, September 28th: Always Well Within
Thursday, September 29th: Truth2BeingFit
Friday, September 30th: Evolution You
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